A LETTER TO ALL NEW MOTHERS.

A LETTER TO ALL NEW MOTHERS.

To be quite honest motherhood is one of the most beautiful and amazing things that can happen to a woman. Being a first-time mother is a great milestone that is both pleasurable and challenging at the same time. As a new mom, taking care of yourself can be quite hard, then how much more difficult can tending to the needs of another human being, especially one who’s completely dependent on you be? In your case, it’s your baby, so every effort in attending to his or her every need is going to be more than worth it. That fact alone should help you survive every difficulty that will come your way in raising your child, and being prepared by knowing what they are, can help you adjust and step into your new status as quickly as possible. Here are some few challenges you are most likely to go through in your new motherhood journey and how to maneuver through them.

1.Breastfeeding isn’t always easy.

It may take weeks of practice and work before most mothers understand how to properly. If you’re having trouble breastfeeding, you should get help from either a lactation consultant or another mother who has had experience in breastfeeding. It may take a while to perfect the necessary timing and positioning but you will eventually get there.

2.Losing your pre-baby figure.

It is completely normal to miss your pre-pregnancy body. It is also completely normal to retain a few pounds after birth. The extra pounds usually serve a purpose as the extra fat cells which help during breastfeeding. But with time you can introduce diet and exercise into your routine in order to shed off the extra weight.

3.Can’t get enough sleep.

This happens often when your baby’s sleeping pattern is scheduled for during the day and now they stay awake during the night. This can be very exhausting for the mother since they have to stay awake and take care of their baby at night. This can be solved by trying to ensure your baby is well fed at night so that they can easily fall asleep.

4.Strain on spouse relationships.

It is not often talked about but motherhood may lead to a strain in your relationship with your spouse. Most husbands may complain that the mother's attention shifts to the baby. The mother on the other hand is just to cope up with the new journey of motherhood. This in turn usually leads to arguments between the new parents. This can be resolved by seeking guidance from an experienced couple or sometimes a therapist.

5. Balancing responsibilities.

New mothers often find it hard to balance responsibilities of caring for their babies as well as doing household chores or work and personal commitments. It can be overwhelming to manage all these responsibilities at the same time. This can be resolved by seeking help from family, friends, or hiring a nanny to help ease the burden. 

Despite all these challenges, all new mothers should remember to be strong and embrace the new journey ahead of them.By prioritizing self-care, new mothers can enjoy this journey and create a beautiful and strong bond with their newborns. They should also remember that every journey is unique and there is no need for comparison.